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Posted by: Scott-O-Rama 2 years, 1 month agoFamilies that didn't stop at two kids are becoming more common than you might think. In fact, new statistics show more and more couples having three or more kids these days.
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mbkijb
Aug. 14, 2006, 5:09 p.m.I had two pregnancies with the intent of two kids. I had twins, making it three altogether. I love them most dearly, but honestly, who can afford more than that nowadays? Crazy expensive world we live in.
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chandrei
Aug. 14, 2006, 5:09 p.m.At last christans are being overpowered by Muslim theory about reproduce more and take over the world.
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XODMom
Aug. 14, 2006, 7:39 p.m.I don't see anything wrong with having more than 2 children. I already have one son whose 4 months old. I want 3 or 4 kids altogether and once they grow up, I'd like to become a foster parent and help other kids. My mom had 7 brothers and sisters and my dad had 6. I love being part of such a big family with so many cousins, aunts and uncles. What should America do, put a limit on how many children families should have? That way we can be just like China, having babies lying in the gutters and dumpsters. The way I see it, if you want a big family and can afford it, go right ahead. That's just one of the rights we have being American citizens.
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athanasiusrc
Aug. 14, 2006, 10:35 p.m.We have six kids and somehow manage to raise them on less than 60k a year. Kids don't need designer clothes and you don't need three new cars and cable tv.
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tks-back
Aug. 14, 2006, 10:59 p.m.what do u mean cable is a necessity now a days and new cars are also a must with gas prices, no im not avcating a cap just on people on welfare they have the most anyway
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uncleT
Aug. 14, 2006, 11:29 p.m.My wife and I have three fine kids, two boys and a girl. We decided that she would be a stay at home mom until the kids could fend for themselves. That was about 16 years before our daughter the youngest informed her mom that she didn’t need her to be there all the time in the seventh grade.
What I’m trying to say in short is we met their needs when they needed us and gave them room to fly when they were ready.
The oldest son graduated with a computer science degree and is currently with the peace core teaching English in the Republic of Georgia. The Second Son is an electrician in the Air Force, been to Iraq and back and is planning on college after he gets out.
The girl is on track to graduate this December with two degrees and got us off the hook three years ago by going for a scholarship and knows her way around the system of applying for and getting additional grant money
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XODMom
Aug. 15, 2006, 1:09 a.m.Chile Hot Pepper,
Yes it's true that bad things happen even here in America. No matter how great of a parent you are, there are some things you just can't help. But you shouldn't let your fear of what could happen effect their lives. I mean, anytime you get in a car you could get in a wreck and die, but that doesn't stop people from driving. There are alot of good people in this world, and they shouldn't be scared to have kids just because of the bad people. All you can do is be the best parent you absolutely can, and hope like hell that your kids become one of the good people as well.
uncleT,
Congratulations on your children. That's really great. I only wish that the world had more parents like you. It's obvious that you are very proud of your childrens successes.
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chandrei
Aug. 15, 2006, 2:24 a.m.Hey Chile HOt Pepper, I never thought I could find someone who thinks this way. Marry me.
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adinas
Aug. 15, 2006, 9:56 a.m.If you don't want the Muslims to take over the world HAVE MORE KIDS. We need more people 'like us'
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mbkijb
Aug. 15, 2006, 7:52 p.m.Chile Hot Pepper....
Believe it or not...I had the same feeling about them that you do.... I call them sexually transmitted diseases...But I still love them dearly now that they are here.....Glad they are teens though... I hate screaming little kids too....lol
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athanasiusrc
Aug. 15, 2006, 11:20 p.m.So, Chile Hot Pepper, you aren't planning on taking any social security or medicare when you are older since it's the next generation that you hate so much that will be paying for it? Or is it okay to take money from other people as long as you don't have to contribute to the money pool by having kids?
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mbkijb
Aug. 16, 2006, 2:48 p.m.CHP - you sound like an angry person.... some people are not cut out to be parents and that is a very personal choice, I totally agree. I always tell mine not to have kids simply to make me a grandmother, but to enjoy their lives and do what makes them happy. Honestly, I would be just as happy to see them child free (as I once thought I would be), traveling and enjoying life if that is what makes them happy. As for me, I can always get a pet to keep me occupied (we have enough pets in my hell hole too...lol). Or, they can bring me grandpets. The notion of having kids to satisfy a biological need never fit well with me. I guess it goes along with the sexually transmitted disease thing...lol Sometimes we get caught up in our own game and it is ours to pay for for the rest of our lives. You don't have to get so defensive. Who really cares how other people feel. I would have been fine either way, but the hand that was dealt to me is what I have to work with, and at this point, it is ok.
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mbkijb
Aug. 16, 2006, 7:17 p.m.CHP, It doesn't sound like I would even want you as an aunt, or uncle, or whatever you are.....lol I do understand your point, though, I think... Just don't get defensive, palease! And I shall leave it at that. >:)~
However, not everyone shares your view. I also have an awesome, patient, hard working and extremely loving husband. I have many views that would cause much controversy on this one, but I am choosing to keep my mouth shut. :$ It is just way toooooo personal. I'm not out to get you...over and out.
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mbkijb
Aug. 17, 2006, 8:21 a.m.CHP, I do understand your point. That is why I encourage my daughters-and son-to get that good college education, chase their dreams, and make sure they can stand on their two feet before they bring anymore problems into this world. Things sure do get complicated once children arrive, and yes, I am one of the lucky ones. I have had many boyfriends, and believe me, I wouldn't wish the majority of them on anyone, let alone letting them father my kids. I made that mistake the first time. I had a beautiful daughter by a scumbag who left us for dead, and thank Godfully, I met a man who loved me for me and loved her for her. I gave him twins. Though none of any of it were in my plans, I guess it was in the master plan, and I am grateful and thankful to have the husband I have to get me through it. I do worry about my kids though. The responsibilities are enormous and decades long. And the worry never ends. And it is not for everyone, as I sometimes question my sanity when things get tuff :)
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mbkijb
Aug. 17, 2006, 12:07 p.m.You are very right, and I honestly don't want to see my kids suffer. I want the best for them, and it doesn't neccessarily include kids in their future. Whatever they do is what they have to live with the rest of their life, but you are right. Kids are overrated. Amen to that. :)
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XODMom
Aug. 17, 2006, 3:48 p.m.Maybe I just feel differently than other people. I don't think kis are overrated at all. My son is 4 months old and I love him more than I ever thought I could possibly love anything. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. He's perfect. After having him is when I realized that I want 3 or 4 kids. Now maybe I feel that way b/c he's only 4 months right now. Maybe it'll get harder when he gets older. Or maybe I feel that way b/c I got very lucky. He's never been sick. No ear ache, no colic, not even diaper rash. And he was already sleeping through the night when he came home from the hospital. Maybe if I'd had a tougher baby I'd feel differently. But at this point, I just think kids are absolutely wondeful.
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mbkijb
Aug. 17, 2006, 7:22 p.m.Hmmmmmmmm..... XODMom....My first one was perfect too (Honestly, she still is)..... However, have a few more and come back in 14 years and give me your thoughts then. Til then, my sincere best to you and your sweet little one. :) They don't stay sweet for that long, kind of like driving a new car off of a car lot. But on rare occasions they have their moments that make it all ok and worth while. (For some reason this message board has kept my interest...) >:)~ ssssssssssssss
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